Somehow I thought the guy situation couldn't get worse, but today it definitely did....
My international guy friend actually had the nerve to ask me if I would think about marrying him so he could get a green card, and be in the US army! He was serious, I still can't get over it!!!!! That was yesterday; then today we were doing a Book of Mormon study, and we got in a big argument about my life! He thinks something is really wrong with me because I have a degree, yet I'm working for a tiny amount of money. Seriously, many of the international workers think that if you're a US citizen you have it easy, and you can get any job you want! I tried to explain that I'm trying to figure out what I want to do with grad school etc, but all he said was that if you have a plan and work for it, it will work out! PUHH-LEASE. I am the wrong person to tell this to. Do you know how many times I've made plans and something came up to change them (all it took was dating Nate, then getting Mono, then loosing my job, then the economy dropping, to mess up the marriage/family therapy plans- but yah, if I had worked towards that goal it definitely would have happened. *SARCASM strongly used in that sentence*)? It's only happened every other time I make a plan of any size. Again, Puh- lease! I am so bugged right now. I don't see many problems with taking some time off, working in a fun area, and taking a step back to see what it is I really want to do. What do I need money for anyway? Don't you think that I've already gone over the "I have a looser status because 1. I don't have a great career (here) or 2. family (UT)?" All I need is some guy to tell me this, especially after yesterday's "lovely" conversation. Why are men like they are? It finally dawned on me that every time I'm with him I get annoyed, even if he is the only other LDS guy here (who hasn't been to church for 1 1/2 year). Maybe I should get the hint!
#2 guy, I still like the prison guy. I found out what he was in for, and it's really not a big deal... but I also know that I have a tendency to float to people with issues... so I'd better not get too close right? Why does he have to be the most cute/spiritual (probably from repentance, ug) one???
#3- guys in the branch. I got asked out on a date - on Facebook the other day (first for me). The only problem is that this guy works crazy insane hours, and told me today that he can't really think of a time that we can actually go on a date. hmmm. No time for me? Flattering.
#4 As I was driving to SD, in the middle of the nothingness of Wyoming, I got a call from my friend Melissa. She wanted to set me up with her neighbor... but I never heard from him! Then after my whole stupid guy day, I get on my email and there is an email from him! I can't think of a worse time really. He'd pretty much have to be perfect for me to even think of him in a nice light right now, just because of his gender! Maybe I should read his email again tomorrow... not the night that I'm having a "Night at the haunted hotel" night, as I'm here doing the night audit until 6 am. Actually my manager did it and had me pretty much watch. It's so confusing! The directions say "it should be balanced" but from what I've heard, it NEVER is, and the directions don't say how to fix it!
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Well, now there's at least one update- prison guy has a girlfriend so I don't have to worry about getting to close to him! I also sent an email to the guy in Vernal... but no reply yet. No updates on the others, YET.
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